After 45 Years of Incarceration, Marvin Grimm, Jr. Celebrates Christmas Without the Shadow of Wrongful Conviction

“We carried this weight for 45 years, now it feels like we’ve lost 1,000 pounds.”

12.16.24 By Alyxaundria Sanford

Photo credit: Elijah Craig II

Marvin Grimm, Jr. with sisters Sharon and Lisa in New York City. (Photo credit: Elijah Craig II)

This Christmas, Marvin Grimm, Jr. will finally experience what he has long dreamed of — a holiday free from the shadow of a wrongful conviction. For the first time in decades, this holiday season will not be marred by the restrictions of a sex offender registry, the forced family separations that resulted, or the stigma of a false conviction. 

“It’s been a long journey,” Mr. Grimm said, reflecting on the 45 years he spent fighting to return home to his family. “When it was time for me to go back to my cell [after a family visit], it was always a letdown, because I had to go back and they got to leave.” 

Mr. Grimm spent more time in prison than any client exonerated by the Innocence Project for a crime he did not commit. He was released on parole in 2020 and required to register as a sex offender despite his innocence. In 1975, a young boy went missing and his body was found on the southern banks of the James River in Virginia. With no other lead, Mr. Grimm, who lived in the apartment across from the boy and his family, became a possible suspect simply due to “previous arguments and encounters” with the boy’s family.  After a nine-hour work shift and approximately nine hours of interrogation, Mr. Grimm falsely confessed that he had abducted, sodomized and murdered the boy. 

With the assistance of the Innocence Project and Arnold & Porter, he was finally exonerated in June. 

During Marvin’s incarceration, his sisters Sharon and Lisa Grimm, — along with their late sister Patty and parents — made holidays a priority. 

“There was not a holiday that we didn’t go to the prison that Marvin was at, whether it was Thanksgiving or Christmas,” said Lisa, who was only 10 years old when her brother was wrongly convicted. “He just always came first the morning of the holidays, and then the family would do something in the afternoon.” 

Even after his release, their holidays were celebrated in shifts because Marvin’s sex offender status at the time prevented him from attending certain family gatherings where young children were present. 

“My nephew, Scott, has a son, whom I was prohibited from seeing because of my charge and what I was convicted of,” he said. “So Sharon would spend the morning with Lisa and me then leave and head over there to Scott’s house for the afternoon.”

After Marvin’s exoneration and removal from the registry this year, the entire family will now gather for the first time in decades without restrictions.

Marvin with sisters, Lisa and Sharon, niece Crystal, and nephew Scott. (photo courtesy of the Grimm family)

Christmas in 2022: Marvin with sisters, Lisa and Sharon, niece Crystal, and nephew Scott. (photo courtesy of the Grimm family)

“This year is going to be awesome. It’s going to be a fun Christmas, because everybody can see each other. Nobody has to split their time,” Sharon said. “We carried this weight for 45 years, now it feels like we’ve lost 1,000 pounds.”

One cherished tradition that the family is looking forward to is Sharon’s Christmas breakfast, a feast of egg casserole, cinnamon rolls, and fruit. 

“I introduced it to Marvin and Lisa, and they seem to enjoy it,” Sharon laughed. “Maybe this year, we’ll even do mimosas to make it extra festive.”

This winter, Marvin said he also finds himself feeling more engaged in the holiday season —  something he dissociated from over the last several decades.

“I’m still working on getting rid of some of the [emotional detachment] I had from before I came home,” he admitted. “Holidays in prison were just another day. They might put a Christmas tree in the visiting room, but where we lived, you didn’t see any of that.”

Since his release and moving in with Lisa, they have started their own tradition of decorating for the holidays together. 

Christmas 2020: Marvin and Sharon hold ornaments given to them as gifts in remembrance of their mother who passed in 2015. (photo courtesy of Grimm family)

Christmas 2020: Marvin and Sharon hold ornaments given to them as gifts in remembrance of their mother who passed in 2015. (photo courtesy of Grimm family)

“He has certain decorations that he has favored, and he puts them in his bedroom, like the Grinch. So it’s been exciting over the years since he’s been home,” Lisa said. 

For the Grimm siblings, however, the holidays represent more than just decorations, food, and festivities. It’s also a reminder of the family’s resilience and the power of faith. 

“We’ve learned not to hold on to bitterness. The Lord works in mysterious ways, turning bad into good. This Christmas, we’re focusing on gratitude and love,” Lisa said.

“I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for God and the Innocence Project,” Marvin added. “They’re angels of mercy, doing work that’s God-ordained.”

Marvin said he wants his story to especially inspire others during this season of giving. 

“For anybody who’s interested in what’s been going on at the Innocence Project and see the people that they are helping get out of prison for giant crimes they didn’t commit, do what your heart feels and donate to them,” he said. 

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